Lilly – Wand-Powered Insertable Grinder

The Lilly brings together grinding, fullness, and wand-powered vibration in one seamless design. It’s a strap-down wand-powered silicone grinder built to deliver powerful, layered stimulation through texture, movement and vibration. The surface is made from soft lily petals that respond as you grind, creating shifting, buildable sensation with every movement.

At the base, a raised lily bud provides internal stimulation, adding fullness while you stay in control of rhythm and pressure. A full-size body wand fits securely into the top, driving deep vibration through the entire toy, including the insertable. The result is a more intense, immersive experience where everything works together, not separately.

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▶ Why You'll Love It

Designed for use with a body wand → delivers strong, deep vibration through the entire toy
Insertable lily bud adds fullness → enhances internal sensation while you grind
Petal-shaped grinding surface → creates responsive, changing external stimulation
Strap-down design → keeps the toy stable and hands-free during use
Soft or Medium firmness options → choose between flexibility or more structure
Handmade silicone construction → body-safe, durable, and long-lasting

▶ What It Feels Like

Deep, immersive vibration that travels through the entire design
Petal texture creates rolling, shifting stimulation as you move
Internal bud adds fullness without needing thrusting movement
Sensation builds naturally through grinding rather than forcing intensity
Pressure can be adjusted easily through body weight and positioning
A layered experience where vibration, texture and movement combine

▶ Is This Toy Right For You?

Great For

People who enjoy strong wand-powered vibration
Those who prefer grinding rather than thrusting
Users wanting both internal and external stimulation
Anyone looking for a more immersive, layered sensation

Also Good For

Hands-free or strap-down setups
Exploring blended stimulation in a simple, intuitive way
Adding powerful vibration to grinder-style play

Might Not Be Ideal If

You prefer thrusting-style toys
You want very light or subtle stimulation
You don’t own a compatible full-size body wand
You prefer firm, rigid toys only

▶ Size & Dimensions

Measurement	Size
Base Length	19.6 cm / 7.7 in
Base Width	11.4 cm / 4.5 in
Insertable Length (usable)	11.5 cm / 4.5 in
Diameter (at the tip)	2.2 cm / 0.9 in
Circumference (at the tip)	6.9 cm / 2.7 in
Diameter (at the widest point)	4.0 cm / 1.6 in
Circumference (at the widest point)	12.6 cm / 5.0 in

▶ Colours & Custom Options

Godemiche toys are made to order, allowing you to choose from a wide range of colour combinations.

You can select anything from simple single colours to multi-colour designs, fades and highlights depending on the product options available.

If colour choice isn't important to you, you can also select Godemiche Purple, our classic house colour, or choose Surprise Me and let us pick a colour combination for you. Surprise Me colours are chosen from our available silicone pigments and often result in unique combinations.

With dozens of colour possibilities, you can create a toy that feels uniquely yours.

Because each piece is handmade, colour placement and blending may vary slightly from one toy to the next. This is a natural part of the process and part of what makes every piece individual.

If you'd like to see examples of how different colour styles look, you can explore our full Godemiche Colour Guide.

▶ Firmness Options

This toy is available in two silicone firmness levels:

Soft
More flexible and cushioned. Soft silicone compresses easily, allowing the petals and insertable shape to move more during use.

Medium
A more structured feel while still remaining comfortable. Medium holds its shape better, which can make texture and pressure feel more defined.

If you're unsure, Soft is the most popular choice for most customers.
Choose Medium if you prefer a firmer feel or want the texture and vibration to feel more pronounced.

▶ How To Use

1. Secure the grinder to a pillow, cushion, chair or a partner’s thigh using the included straps. Make sure it is firmly positioned and won’t move during use.

2. Apply water-based lubricant to the grinding surface, the insertable element and yourself. This helps reduce friction and makes movement more comfortable.

3. Insert your body wand into the top cup of the grinder. Ensure it is seated securely so vibration transfers properly through the toy.

4. Get into a comfortable position and straddle the grinder. Take your time guiding the insertable into place, adjusting your position until it feels natural.

5. Turn on the wand at a low setting. Give your body time to adjust to the sensation before increasing intensity.

6. Begin to move your hips slowly. Grind, rock or roll your hips to explore how the petals and insertable respond to different angles and pressure.

7. Adjust intensity and movement as you go. You can stay still and enjoy the vibration or add more movement to increase texture-based sensation.

8. When finished, turn off and remove the wand. Clean the grinder with warm soapy water or a suitable toy cleaner, then allow it to dry fully before storing.

▶ Tips For Getting The Most From It

Start with lower vibration and build gradually
Adjust your body angle to change how the petals contact you
Use slower movement to feel texture more clearly
Add pressure to increase intensity
Combine stillness with movement to vary sensation
Reapply lubricant as needed for comfort

▶ Why We Made This Toy

The Lilly was created to combine three things people already love: grindable toys, insertable toys, and the powerful vibration of a body wand.

Each of these offers something different on its own. By bringing them together, the design creates a more layered experience where texture, movement, pressure and vibration all work together. It’s not just combining features, it’s creating a different way to explore stimulation.

The design also reflects a shift in aesthetic. Instead of something gendered or realistic, Lilly was shaped to feel natural, soft and visually balanced. The petal and bud form allows the surface to move with vibration, enhancing external sensation while the insertable provides internal stimulation and fullness during use.

▶ Materials & Safety

Materials

Made from 100% high-grade platinum-cured silicone
Coloured using body-safe, non-toxic pigments
Free from phthalates, latex, BPA and plasticisers
Non-porous, hypoallergenic and designed for long-term use

Platinum-cured silicone is considered the gold standard for body-safe sex toys due to its durability, flexibility and resistance to bacteria.

Body Safety

Fully non-porous — will not harbour bacteria when cleaned properly
Safe for external and internal use
Compatible with water-based lubricants only

⚠ Do not use with silicone-based lubricants, as they may damage the surface.

Allergies & Sensitivities

Suitable for most people with sensitive skin
If you have known sensitivities, we recommend performing a patch test before extended use

Cleaning & Care

Wash before and after each use with:
Warm water and mild, unscented soap, or
A dedicated toy cleaner
Allow to air-dry completely before storing
For deeper cleaning, toys without electronics may be boiled for 3–5 minutes (if size and design allow)

Storage

Store in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight
Keep separate from other silicone toys to prevent surface interaction
Use a fabric pouch or original packaging where possible

▶ FAQ

Do I need a wand to use this?
No. You can use The Lilly as a standard grinder without a wand. For the full experience, it’s designed to be paired with a compatible full-size body wand to add deep, powerful vibration.

Is the wand included?
No, the wand is not included. You can use your own or add one when ordering.

What’s the difference between Soft and Medium?
Soft is more flexible and cushioned. Medium holds its shape more and can make texture feel more defined.

Can I use this without turning the wand on?
Yes. It can be used as a standard grinder without vibration if preferred.

Is this suitable for beginners?
Yes. The Lilly is suitable for all experience levels. You control the pressure, movement and vibration, allowing you to keep things gentle or build intensity as you become more comfortable.

Will every toy look exactly the same?
Each toy is handmade from body-safe silicone, making every piece unique. Small variations are a natural part of the process and never affect safety or use.

How do I clean it?
Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, then allow it to dry fully before storing.

▶ Shipping

Handmade Production Time

All Godemiche products are made by hand.

Production times vary depending on current order volume.

The most up-to-date production times can be found here: How Long Orders Take

Shipping Timelines

Orders are shipped after production is complete.

Shipping times vary based on destination and selected service.

Full shipping details are available here: Shipping Times and Order Processing

Discreet Packaging

All orders are shipped in discreet, unbranded packaging.

No product or company details appear on the outside of the parcel.

International Availability

International shipping is available.

Delivery times and customs processing may vary by destination.

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